nothing to be forgiven of, old time friend!
as matter of fact you raised two questions
1 ) about the first issue, well, trust me, it was
positively a blokes on blokes thing.
Please pay attention, this is NOT my cup of tea, but I am NOT against this kind of scenes; being myself interested in the 'defeated army' genre, especially in military History scenarios, I have read and met plenty of stories with battlefield pillage or soldiers ( especially partisans or freedom fighters) who provide themselves with equipment, uniforms, boots etc, at the expense of captured enemy troops... not to mention how many comic books I have read in my Youth

, with
Battler Britton disguising himself with German uniforms... alas, ALL of them missed occasions for a proper USB f/f scene: nevertheless, funny and 'innocent'
But, of course, the final line is that
THIS board is NOT devoted to blokes on blokes 'action'; not that genre
2) the other issue... is an issue that is emerging from time to time, from the very beginning of USB...12 years ago
But I believe that a
correct use of the 'subforums' is a good solution.
best regards!